If Only I'd Had This Caregiving Book

Maya Hennessey has important news to any family caregiver of a seriously debilitated loved one in her book. Hennessey alerts you to the research that family caregiving weakens the immune system, unless you have an effective network of support. During the two-and-a-half years her husband and love of her life was dying of brain cancer, she began writing the lessons she was learning to guide other caregivers through the day-to-day quotidian horribleness of providing care for a loved one without sacrifice your own humanity. You can benefit from Maya’s Model found in If Only I’d Had This Caregiving Book (AuthorHouse). Hennessey—a longtime (and acclaimed) addictions counselor, educator, consultant, trainer, and psychotherapist—has brought to bear all of her skills, experience, and hard-won insights on this most difficult of situations. If Only is a 102-page workbook certain to change the life of any caregiver—of a partner, child, sibling, or parent—who applies Maya’s Model to their challenges. It is a wonderful hybrid that combines theory, personal stories and empowering exercises into practical and therapeutic solutions to the seemingly insoluble problems that anyone of us might face when caring for a loved one with a serious disease or injury. After a helpful introduction, If Only begins with the author’s moving story of how she came to write it—as a desperate response to the agonizing loss of her husband. She writes, “Each caregiver has a personal story to tell. Here’s mine [. . .] Walk with me through my story of near-destruction, the mistakes I made, and the lessons I learned that evolved into the model I present you, Caregiver, unsung hero that you are.” This warm and direct engagement with the reader permeates the theory, practical advice, and exercises that follow. Then, in easy-to-apply steps, Hennessey lays out the model she wishes she had had when her trials began, made up of: the Caregiver (each one’s unique personality and preferences); the To-Do List (unique to the reader/user, their family, and the loved one); the Social Support Network (composed of the reader/user’s friends, family, co-workers, acquaintances, and community services people); and the all-important Mind-Mapping method which blends the right and left brain into creative problem solving. Mind Mapping is a simple but creative and flexible way to sketch out and break down tasks; assemble categories of people (helpers) in one’s Social Support Network; and match up helpers (the Social Sup

שנה

2006

שפה

English

הוצאה

AuthorHouse

מהדורות

1

עמודים

116

ISBN

9781425909741

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